Preconceived Ideas Versus the Bible

You and I, along with every other Christian on the planet, believe some things that are untrue. Sin has corrupted human beings in every area of life, and that includes our understanding. None of us is free from holding wrong ideas about things.

Often, wrong ideas are so firmly ingrained that Christians don’t even consider the possibility that they might be mistaken. There are various influences that can lead to us having deeply held wrong beliefs.

Culture

To begin with, many of the wrong ideas Christians hold come from the culture in which they were raised. Since we could first understand speech, we have been taught to think about things in certain ways, but what we often don’t realise is that some of this thinking is culturally conditioned rather than being universal.

Importantly, every culture around the world gets some things right and some things wrong. However, we tend to be especially blind to what is wrong in our own culture.

Church denominations

Another reason why many Christians hold wrong ideas is because they are idolising a certain Christian denomination.

There are huge numbers of Christians who believe that there is one true denomination that gets everything of significance right. And many therefore accept all that this denomination teaches without ever stopping to consider whether it might be wrong on anything.

I would suggest, however, that this is wishful thinking. No one denomination gets everything of significance right. Each of them is mistaken on things to some extent.

That is not to say that there are not better and worse denominations in God’s sight. Some are much better than others overall. But there is no true denomination that is always right.

Church leaders

Another common reason for Christians holding wrong ideas is because they idolise certain church leaders.

There should be no doubt that every Christian leader will teach some error no matter how hard he prays against this. Given how we all see things indistinctly at present (1 Cor 13:12), it is very unrealistic to think that any one individual gets every single thing of significance right.

Besides, it is surely a fact that no two Christian leaders agree on every significant point. This means that if there were a leader who is always right, there could only be one of them. And to think that of the thousands of Christian leaders in the world today, the one we personally happen to like the most is the one who always gets things right is hopelessly implausible.

One sign that helps to show whether someone might be idolising a church leader is their attitude when people disagree with the leader. Those guilty of this kind of idolatry often get very offended and angry with people for simply holding a different opinion on something. Their attitude seems to be: ‘Who are you to dare to disagree with such an eminent pastor?’

I have had experiences like this where I have simply disagreed with a certain well known church leader on some point or other. I haven’t been offensive or judgmental. I have just taken a different view on something. But a Christian who seems to idolise that leader has become very angry with me just for doing that.

Parents

The influence of parents is another reason why Christians hold wrong ideas about things.

Christians who had a happy upbringing that involved good Christian parenting sometimes go through their entire lives without questioning anything of importance that their parents taught them. Either they imagine that because their parents were such good parents, they couldn’t have been wrong in anything significant. Or they experience feelings of guilt about questioning their parents’ teaching, because they think (often largely subconsciously) that this would be disrespectful. They therefore immediately suppress all thoughts of questioning what they were taught.

However, it makes no sense for a believer to think that great Christian parents can’t have been wrong on any important issue. Such an idea ignores the obvious truth that there are bound to be other excellent Christian parents who would disagree with them in some respects. 

We must also be careful not to confuse love and respect for parents on the one hand, with accepting what they taught on the other. These are very different things. It is quite possible to love and respect parents deeply, yet also to disagree with some of what they taught us. 

Preconceived ideas when reading the Bible

The list above contains some examples of the reasons why Christians have wrong ideas about things, although there are certainly other reasons too. Again, it must be stressed that holding wrong views is something that affects every single one of us to a greater or lesser extent.

This means that when each of us sits down to read the Bible, we come to it with some wrong preconceived ideas. And because Scripture teaches what is true, this means that when we sit down to read it, we come to it with some beliefs that contradict what it teaches.

The right attitude of heart

One of the main purposes for God giving us the Bible is to correct our wrong preconceived ideas. But if this is to happen as it should, our hearts need to be in the right place as we read it.

First, we need to realise that there are bound to be things we believe that are wrong. We should understand that our minds are damaged by sin and prone to making mistakes.

Second, as far as we can, we need to abandon preconceived ideas.

Third, we need to humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God, opening ourselves up to His willingness to teach us from Scripture by His Spirit.

And finally, we need to listen to what the text says, really listen. We can start by asking what the passage we are reading would have meant to the original readers. And then we can ask what it means for us today.

If we have this sort of attitude of heart towards the Bible, we will be in a great place to grow as Christians.

Many Christians don’t do this

The reason I am writing this article is because over and over and over again I encounter Christians whose approach to reading the Bible is not remotely like this. There are many who have some or other preconceived idea that contradicts Scripture, and they hold this idea with an iron grip.

Instead of allowing the Holy Spirit to shape their thinking as they read and to steer them away from their wrong views, they either ignore what the text is saying, or they start trying to force it to say something it doesn’t.

Please don’t interpret me to mean that I often encounter Christians who disagree with me on the meaning of some biblical passages, and that I am just annoyed about this. That’s not what I am talking about at all. I am talking about Christians who are clearly not trying to listen to the text because they have preconceived ideas set in stone in their minds.

One way to tell that someone has this sort of attitude is that when they are challenged on their views, they just ignore biblical passages that don’t fit with their preconceived ideas.

Let me go into a bit more detail on what I mean. Suppose that there is a biblical passage we will call passage A, and that a Christian takes a certain interpretation of this passage. Suppose too that someone else points out that this interpretation of passage A seems strongly to contradict another passage we will call passage B. If the Christian wants to interpret passage A correctly, he will also have to explain why B says what it says, because God has inspired both passages. However, if he sticks to his original interpretation of passage A while just ignoring passage B, that is a sign that he is not really interested in getting at the truth and that he is probably more interested in holding to his preconceived ideas.

I see this sort of thing all the time, and I am sure it grieves God deeply.

Summing up

Holding on to preconceived ideas as we read the Bible, then, is exactly what not to do.

Instead, when we read Scripture, we need to do our best to give up preconceived ideas along with any idols that are the root causes of these ideas. And we need to open ourselves up to the biblical text and listen as intently as we can to what it is actually saying, trusting that the Holy Spirit will do His work and teach us what is true.

I don’t think it can be overstated how important this approach is. If we do this, and if we are regularly confessing and repenting of our sins, I don’t see how we could do anything but grow as Christians.

 

See also:

Fighting Temptations to Believe What We Want to Believe

It Is Never Right to Tamper with the Bible to Make It “More Helpful”

The Problem with Drawing Conclusions from a Few Bible Proof Texts

Christians Need to Put Everything to the Test

Is It Wrong for Christians to Attend a ‘Gay Wedding’?

Not so long ago a big controversy arose in evangelical circles, when the Scottish church leader Alistair Begg said that it wasn’t wrong for Christians to attend the ‘gay wedding’ of a relative or friend.

Begg was not claiming that God actually recognises such events as real weddings. Nor was he claiming that homosexual practice is not sinful. Rather, he reasoned that Christians need to love everyone, including unrepentant sinners, and that attending the ‘gay wedding’ of a relative or friend was a way of doing this.

A ‘gay wedding’ is a terrible thing

Before going any further, we need to take a moment to think through what God makes of so-called ‘gay weddings’.

When Paul is outlining the depth of human sinfulness in the early chapters of Romans, homosexual practice is one of the few things he gives more than a passing mention to (Rom 1:26-27). Similarly, 1 Corinthians tells us that those who engage in homosexual practice will not inherit the kingdom of God (1 Cor 6:9-10), which means that they will end up in hell, not heaven, unless they repent and are saved. And in the book of Revelation we read of the sexually immoral, who should be understood to include practising homosexuals, being thrown into the lake of fire (Rev 21:8).

In God’s sight, then, homosexual practice is certainly an awful thing. But a so-called ‘gay wedding’ is an even higher level of evil. Not only do those who support such events condone immoral and unnatural behaviour, but they also dare to start trying to alter God’s pattern of marriage. In effect, they are attempting to tear up God’s blueprints for the marriage relationship and to make better ones to replace them. This is an extremely arrogant thing to do.

Actions often imply things

With the depravity of so-called ‘gay weddings’ in mind, we are now ready to ask if it is OK for Christians to attend them.

To begin with, we should be clear that it is absolutely right for us to seek to love relatives or friends who have a ‘gay wedding’. It is all too common to find Christians acting coldly and unlovingly towards people who are unrepentant of various sins, but this is wrong.

Nevertheless, real love manifests itself in different ways depending on the circumstances. And when people are doing something, like having a ‘gay wedding’, that is displeasing to God and also working strongly towards their own harm, if we do or say things that will help to reinforce the bad decision they have made, that is actually an unloving thing to do.

We need to understand that a ‘gay wedding’ has been organised as a celebration. But it is unthinkable that a Christian could go to one and celebrate what is going on. God is being insulted, and the right response for Christians is to mourn what is happening.

However, our actions often imply things about what we believe, and if we go to a ‘gay wedding’, everyone who sees us there will think that we are celebrating unless we make it clear that we aren’t.

If we don’t make this clear, then we will be playing a part in reinforcing the beliefs of those present that something worth celebrating is taking place. And that means that we would in effect be promoting evil.

Of course, if we were to go and make a visible protest against what is happening, there would obviously be no promotion of evil. However, I think at least usually that would be a very bad idea. Those involved would very probably just be annoyed rather than influenced for good.

The issue of honesty

There is also the issue of honesty to consider. At a ‘gay wedding’ there would surely be speeches commending the couple and expressing support for their decision to have a homosexual union. But how could we honestly clap after a speech of this sort? And when someone raises a glass to toast the couple, again with implied support for what they are doing, how could we raise our own glass with a clear conscience?

Without making a visible protest, which would very probably be a mistake as I have said, it seems impossible to be honest and also go to a celebration if we are mourning. And if two men or two women are planning to have a ‘gay wedding’, we should be mourning deeply.

Joining a neo-Nazi group

Let’s think for a moment about an event that is similar to a ‘gay wedding’.

Suppose you have a relative or friend who is formally joining a neo-Nazi group, a genuine neo-Nazi group that goes as far as wanting the murder of Jews.

Suppose too that a celebration has been organised by this group to mark the occasion. People are going to be wearing suits and dresses, there is going to be champagne and speeches, etc.

Would you really go along to this event, when someone you love is being initiated into a group that supports murder? Would you clap after the speeches that praise the murder of Jews? Would you raise your glass to toast the new neo-Nazi member?

I think the vast majority of Christians wouldn’t do this. More than that, I think they would be horrified at the thought of doing so. They would rightly see that neo-Nazi ideology is a terrible thing and that a celebration admitting a new member to this evil group is something that they just couldn’t be part of.

But in terms of the evil involved, is there really much of a difference between this and a ‘gay wedding’? I suppose we could argue that because neo-Nazis support murder, it is worse than a ‘gay wedding’. But even so, this difference is just a matter of degree, and I think a ‘gay wedding’ would come a close second anyway. It is a massive insult to God.

A poor understanding of how evil a ‘gay wedding’ is

I suspect that the real reason many Christians would choose to go to a ‘gay wedding’ is because they simply don’t understand how evil it is. I think many modern Christians have been unconsciously influenced by the values of mainstream Western culture in this respect.

I would suggest too that the reason why many Christians don’t recognise the evil involved is because they have a human-centred, and not God-centred, worldview. A ‘gay wedding’ doesn’t seem to hurt anyone, so they think it can’t be that bad.

However, the whole starting point for this kind of thinking is wrong. We shouldn’t start by asking whether something hurts other people but whether it hurts God. God is at the centre of the universe. Human beings are not.

Summing up

We should have no hesitation in saying, then, that it is a mistake for Christians to attend a so-called ‘gay wedding’. If we were to go without making it clear that we are deeply opposed to what is going on, our actions could only serve to reinforce the people involved in their bad choices. In any case, it seems very dishonest to give an appearance of supporting a celebration when we oppose it. And it just makes no sense for someone to go to a celebration of something they are in fact mourning.

If we refuse to go to a ‘gay wedding’, there is certainly a place for explaining to others why we can’t be a part of the celebration. And there is also a place for us to affirm our love for the men or women involved. Alistair Begg is quite right about the need to love family members or friends who are doing this.

But if we are putting God first and if we want to do what is right for the people involved, we should steer clear of any celebration connected to this evil act.

 

See also:

What Attitude Should Christians Have to Homosexuality?

What Did Jesus Make of Homosexual Practice?

Answering the Accusations of the LGBT Movement

Most People in Western Countries Completely Misunderstand What Human Beings Are