Friday, 28 February 2025

In What Order Should Christians Choose to Help People?

There was some controversy recently when the American Vice President, J. D. Vance, made some suggestions about the order of priority in which people, including Christians, should help those in need.

Vance stated:

‘. . . there’s this old school concept – and I think it’s a very Christian concept, by the way – that you love your family, and then you love your neighbor, and then you love your community. And then you love your fellow citizens in your own country, and then after that you can focus and prioritise the rest of the world.’

Vance made his remarks in the context of trying to justify the U.S. government’s cancellation of most foreign aid. Unsurprisingly, there was a lot of pushback against him from people who wanted the aid to continue.

So what should Christians make of what Vance said on this topic? Does he have a point, or is he making a mistake?

Some relevant biblical verses

As Christians trying to understand this issue, the first thing we need to do is turn to the Bible.

Importantly, there are biblical verses that support a principle of Christians especially helping people who are close to them in some way.

1 Timothy 5 includes some relevant verses, as follows:

‘But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to make some return to their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God.’ (1 Tim 5:4; ESV)

‘But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.’ (1 Tim 5:8; ESV)

‘If any believing woman has relatives who are widows, let her care for them. Let the church not be burdened, so that it may care for those who are truly widows.’ (1 Tim 5:16; ESV)

These verses make it clear that Christians have a special obligation to help blood relatives. And because our resources to help others will always be limited, these verses certainly support a principle of prioritising helping them over helping others.

Another relevant verse is Galatians 6:10, which says:

‘So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. (ESV)

This verse is clear that Christians have a special obligation to help spiritual relatives, i.e., fellow believers in Jesus Christ. And, again, because our resources to help others will always be limited, this verse supports a principle of prioritising helping them over helping others.

Expanding the list

So the Bible encourages us to prioritise helping blood relatives and fellow Christians.

But what about other groups of people, such as those in the town where we live or the country where we live?

I think that the principle of helping blood relatives in 1 Timothy 5 can naturally be expanded to include these groups too, and that they should be prioritised to a certain extent. It would seem strange not to do this.

Some examples of prioritising helping those close to us

If, then, Christians have children who lack decent clothes and there are other children who also lack decent clothes, they should prioritise clothing their own children.

Or, if there are some fellow Christians in a foreign country who are in dire poverty and also some non-Christians in the same country who are in the same level of poverty, Christians should prioritise helping their brothers and sisters in Christ.

Or, if there are people in our town who are hungry and others in a more distant town who are also hungry, I think we should typically prioritise feeding those who live nearby.

This list could be extended with other similar examples.

Priorities in tension with each other

Of course, sometimes priorities will be in tension with each other. So, for example, if there are fellow Christians on the other side of the world who are in some great need, and there are non-Christians in our own town who are in equal need, who should we prioritise helping?

I think there is no simple formula to answer this question and that God’s will will vary from case to case. It isn’t my intention in this article to get into details like this. I am interested in the main points of this issue.

But generally speaking, it makes sense for Christians to prioritise helping groups who are close to them: their own families, fellow Christians, people who live nearby and people of the same nationality.

Not going too far

So Christians should prioritise helping various groups of people who are close to them in some way. Importantly, however, there is a limit to how far this principle should go.

What prioritising groups close to us shouldn’t mean is that we always find excuses to give to these groups instead of outsiders. There is a world of difference between, on the one hand, feeding your own children before other people’s children, and on the other hand, giving many luxuries to your own children while other people’s children go hungry.

In other words, it is right to prioritise getting groups close to us to a certain level of material provision, but there is no justification for getting groups close to us to a level of material provision that is leaps and bounds above that of suffering people who are more distant from us.

Galatians 6:10, that I quoted above, points us in this direction. When this verse says that we should do good to everyone and especially to fellow Christians, this clearly implies that we should normally expect to be doing at least some good to non-Christians. And, given that doing people good often involves meeting their physical needs, such as providing food and clothing, the verse surely implies that we should help non-believers in this way.

So Galatians 6:10 clearly teaches that we should help people in one group that is relatively distant from us, i.e., non-Christians. But the same principle surely applies to other groups that are relatively distant from us too, such as those who are not blood relatives, those who don’t live close to us, and those who are of a different nationality.

Governments of countries

So far I have been talking about how individual Christians should approach the issue of how to prioritise helping people. But it seems to me that the same sort of principle should certainly be made about the governments of countries.

Firstly, a government should help its own citizens in need before it helps those in another country.

If, for example, there were devastating earthquakes in Indonesia and Pakistan at the same time, it should be obvious that the Indonesian government should prioritise bringing help to affected people in their own country before helping those in Pakistan. And likewise the Pakistani government should help its own people first.

But secondly, just as the principle of prioritising certain groups for help shouldn’t be used as an excuse by individual Christians not to help outsiders, so the same is true of governments.

A government can always find useful ways to spend money to help its own citizens. But it often happens that, for one reason or another, people in other countries urgently need help in some way. When this happens, countries should be generous in looking out for each other. This is surely the will of God.

Getting back to J. D. Vance, I am aware that I can’t see what is in his heart with certainty, and I don’t want to judge him without knowing all the facts. Nevertheless, I do think I should say that the impression I get is that he is looking for excuses not to help people around the world who are in need. Some of the aid money that the U.S. government has cancelled really does seem to be money that was used to help people in significant need.

Vance gives the impression of wanting to solve almost all of America’s problems before helping others. If that is true, there is nothing in Scripture that would support such an attitude.

 

See also:

Christians Must Be Generous in Giving to the Poor

The Ministry of Kindness

The Importance of Sympathy and Empathy in Christian Living

The Prosperity Gospel Is a False Gospel

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