Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Don’t Underestimate the Value of Little Acts of Kindness

I was talking recently to a Christian friend of mine who is suffering a lot from poor health. He was lamenting how little he is accomplishing for God, and I think it would be fair to say that he viewed his life at the present time as a failure in God’s sight.

I took, and still take, a very different view on what this man is achieving for God. It is certainly true that he is restricted in what he can do. However, he does what he can. He is able to help other people in various little ways, like by walking their dogs, and I think God is very pleased and glorified by all this.

Matthew 10:40-42

When we turn to the Bible, we find the Lord Jesus speaking very highly of little acts of kindness.

One key passage is Matthew 10:40-42, where Jesus says:

40 Whoever receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives him who sent me. 41 The one who receives a prophet because he is a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and the one who receives a righteous person because he is a righteous person will receive a righteous person’s reward. 42 And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.’ (ESV)

The first two verses of this passage refer to ‘receiving’ various people: apostles, Jesus, God, prophets and righteous people. In this context to receive a person must mean to welcome that person positively and to act so as to benefit or please them.

In verse 40 ‘you’ refers firstly to Jesus’ 12 apostles, as Matthew 10:5 makes clear. So this verse is saying that to receive an apostle counts as receiving Jesus and God.

However, there is no doubt that receiving Christians other than apostles would also count as receiving Jesus and God. Note how verses 41 and 42 both refer to receiving or helping a wider group of Christians than just the 12 apostles, and there should be no doubt that the principle in verse 40 should also be expanded to include Christians generally.

This means that when we do good to a fellow Christian, in a real and deep sense there is a Godward dimension to what we are doing. We are pleasing God Himself, and the importance of this can hardly be overstated.

We can note also that v. 41 tells us that when a Christian receives a prophet or righteous person because that person is a prophet or righteous person, that Christian will receive the reward due to the prophet or righteous person. This is quite astonishing. Just welcoming a Christian who is in one of these categories entitles the welcomer to the reward due to the person in that category! Again, we can see that the value Jesus puts on welcoming and helping fellow Christians is enormous.

Verse 42 also points firmly in the same direction.

In this verse ‘little ones’ is surely a reference to Christians generally rather than to children. See how ‘little ones’ and ‘because he is a disciple’ refer to the same group of people. And children are not mentioned in the context.

Note how Jesus goes out of His way in this verse to describe the smallest possible gift. The recipient of the gift is not a group of Christians but just one Christian. The gift is not wine but just water. The amount of water is not a barrel but just a cup. And the water isn’t even heated but is cold.

So in human terms this gift is minuscule. But Jesus is adamant. Whoever gives a gift like this to a fellow Christian will in no way lose his reward. Once again, we can see that the importance Jesus attaches to performing little acts of kindness for fellow Christians is huge.

Helping non-Christians as well as Christians

The passage we have looked at teaches about the importance of practical acts of help for fellow believers. And it is true that we should normally prioritise helping fellow Christians over non-believers (Gal 6:10).

However, there is no doubt that God is also very pleased by similar acts of kindness towards those outside the family of faith. In Matthew 5:43-47 the Lord Jesus teaches how we should love even our enemies, i.e., those who oppose us. If we should do good even to those who oppose us, it is certainly right for us more generally to help non-Christians when they are in need.

Pleasing God for eternity

As we have seen, God is pleased by acts of kindness, even by ones that are humanly speaking very small.

It is helpful for us to try to grasp the magnitude of what it means to please God. God is the Creator of time, dwelling outside time and eternal. So if a human being pleases God in any way, the pleasure God derives from that action is eternal. It will never fade away.

Therefore, if you or I perform an act of kindness to someone, even a minor one, God is more pleased than He would be otherwise, and He will remain more pleased eternally. It is a kind of infinite thing.

In view of this, let us renew our efforts to be the sort of people who are often taking opportunities to help others with acts of kindness.

 

See also:

The Ministry of Kindness

Christians Must Be Generous in Giving to the Poor

The Importance of Sympathy and Empathy in Christian Living

In What Order Should Christians Choose to Help People?